Saturday, May 7, 2011

Deviance.........

saturday morning while working at my job i notice a men was been deviant in the way that he is breaking a gender behavior.I say this because this men was with his wife and he was wearing a purse instead of his wife.It was funny and weird seeing a men with a purse.But then when it got the time to charge them in the cashier for their groceries they gave an explanation why he was caring that purse.He told his wife, " omg, you always give me your purse to carry it and people are going to think im from the other path way (gay)." his wife only laughed and i did to.Because he said he always has to carry it.He was been deviant at first for breaking a social norm by doing a opposite gender job that make people look at him weird and see him as a un normal person for having a female object.

This story is related to sociology because in society many people act deviant.Deviant is breaking a social norm that make you be seen as un normal or weird.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Resocialization!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When i was little i went to pioneer School for 2 years after that i moved to Currier school, which Currier school had a different society than pioneer school.I say this because at pioneer school the teachers were so mean and they wouldn't really care about their students.And the other students at the classes were mean and disrespectful and very violent.I say this because i had a bad year there once i was a new student to the school and class.On the other hand Currier school was the bomb, because everyone there was completely so nice and  respectful with no insults and violence.well, what i want to talk about is that when i got transfer to Currier school i had to learn there society roles to adapt to their society.From transferring from pioneer school to Currier school and learning a new culture after been  socialized to one is called Resocialization.Which in this case i experienced the term of resocialization because i had to leave back my culture from pioneer to start the new culture from Currier which it was the version of been a good student and be respectful and nice.Which it was the way i wanted to assist to a school like that because i hated pioneer school because the other students at my class would insult me or they would steal my things and they would hit me and i would tell my teacher but she wouldn't do nothing.all i would do was cry and tell my mom i hated school.When i got adapted to the Currier school i would tell my mom i loved that school.

I think that my story is an example of resocialization because i got transfer from one place to another and my  job was to learn a new culture from that new place.And i did learn it!!! And that's how we got to see The term RESOCIALIZATION.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

IN sociology we were talking about role models who are negatine influences to girl.Well know i think i know who is a bad influence to boys but the age of teens.The person i thought its chris Brown because he is a rebel teen ans he does violent things like when he hit rhiana.He commited a crime of domestic violence to the victim rhiana which is a bad negative influence for teens because they get the message of abusing girls or commiting the same crimes as him.I say this because many teens are so much into listening his music then they would know everything about him and they would what to be like him.Another message that chris Brown brings to teens is to do drugs and live their life crazy with no one interfering.

this is related to sociology because many role models from the world bring out many negative influences for the teens and children because they are the easiest  person to get their atttention form sense they get intertain so easily from any kind of music and fun activities.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Chinese Mothers Are Superior...........

I feel undecided on this article of the "chinese mothers" because i see the chinese parenting as a mean way and a good/helpful way to teach their childs the right ways of life.Its good that the parents thought their childrens to not be lazy and to never give up on their beliefs and competitive activities they are in.That shows their childrens that the parents belief in them and that they can do every thing they try.Another great thing that the chinese parents do its not to praise their childs alot because if they do then their childs will become lazy and they will not try enough on their activities because they will always know that their parents are their for them when they do something unhappy and bad for their parents.so by showing them that they care about them once in a while it will make the childrens feel like they are not working hard enough to make their parents feel proud of them.I believe that by saying emotional comments that can hurt your childs feelings can be a good thing and a bad thing because they can make feel their childs feel unwortless and not hard working kids so that will make them feel so disgrace ans bad that they will try enough to become better and succesful at the things they are bad in.Another great thing about chinese parentings is not allowing their childs to get distracted of the outside society which i mean of the bad things like bad friends and boyfriends/girlfriends and drugs/alcohol and parties that just bring up bad obedience and influence to them that will lead them to a horrible situation at life with no sucess and no future.

On the other hand i really dont like the fact that the chinese parents decide the childs life because they make their choices and they rule them by telling them what thingsto do and what not to do.I totally disagree in here beacuse i dont think that its right for the parents to choose their childs living because that makes their childs feel boring because that can not be their interestsbecause they may have another interest.I get that parents always try to choose the best future for their childs but they should just let them be and choose on their on then when they are actually messing up on theri own thyen they should interfier and help them.Another thing i dont like its those rude mean comments that make their childs feel unworthless and disgrace.I say this because somethimes many childs take it as the real meaning of the comments and they get to emotional that they can hut themselves by feeling like S*** or garbage....(sorry) but its true.....


I think that Freud's theory has something related to this article because she beliefs that childrens receive their personality based on the parenting of your parents and the way they teach their childs.So i think that this 2 things are similar because the chinese childs get their intelligence from the extra pressure and work(practice) that the parents put them to  do  so they become extra better at the things they are lacking.

Friday, March 25, 2011

cultural universals in society....

A cultural Universal that its all around in society is language.I Say this because theirs a lot off people in The American society that speak different languages and they may know how to communicate with others or they may not.If they are struggling communicating with someone they find their way to communicate by doing signs with their hands or by  pointing to things.This is a cultural universal because everyone in society has a language they speak or share with others by having the language in common.

In my work place, there was a Spanish  lady who didn't know how to speak English so when Americans would got buy things at my job she didn't know how to communicate with them so she would tell me to tell them the amount of money they would own or if they had a question i would answer them back.If i wasn't there she would try to make signs to communicate with them.So a cultural universal is taken place at my job because everyone in there have a language that they speak.

Friday, March 18, 2011

Culture Clash Day.... Jk

Today i will be talking about culture clash. Culture class is when two different cultures meet and cannot interact successfully.They will need to relearn that culture in order to become successful to interact with each others.This is a term that i learned this week at my class of sociology.Well an example of a culture class is when the Hispanics come to America and they need to learn the American culture in order to become successfully in America and to be able to succeed.Also they have to cooperate with each others to learn the American culture for example they need to learn the Americans language in order to communicate with the people in America also they need to be part of the American culture so they aren't seen as strangers and weirdos or making themselves part of an out group. Also if the Hispanics follow some traditions or beliefs/ideas of the American culture they can become part of in group.By Hispanics cooperating and the Americans too by working together and helping each others on their struggles they can both make everything easier  for each others and get along and become friends so both cultures interact with each others and become successfully at America.

This example i gave relates to my class of sociology because theirs two cultures that are cooperating to interact with each other to become successful, but  if they don't do nothing then they will never get along and their will be problems everywhere and disagreements in both cultures.

Friday, March 11, 2011

While sitting on the bus next to a weird Kid......

Everyday i would go on the bus to school when i was a child. There was this weird kid  in the bus that would do  crazy, weird things that would  even gross out other children.I still remember his name, his name was Chris and he was like three years younger than me.Well this weird kid would always be eating his boogers on  the bus and it was so disturbing and gross (nasty)seeing him.I remember that he liked this one girl at the bus and he would still do it in front of her and he really didn't cared.Well the thing is that he would always eat his boogers on public no matter if people would see him.I also remember that i would scare him by telling him "Hey christian, Don't eat your boogers because them you will have worms at your stomach," He wouldn't cared or listened to me because he would still do it.Even the girl he liked would tell him that, that was so gross and that, that was so bad for his health but he would only ignore.Also this weird kid would make weird noises on the bus and he would reacted all crazy and started laughing by himself.

Well the whole purpose of writing this story was because i wanted to say that the actions of this child in my bus were all folkways because he would do crazy, weird ,gross things in society that would make the people around him feel disturbed and gross out but with out a harm on them because he would only affect himself by looking totally out of a group and by looking as a weird outstanding person that does nasty things that doesn't make him look good in society.This is related to my Sociology class because we earned about Folkways and Norms and Taboos and other things that are actions of people that make them break one of this terms.For example in my story this child Chris was breaking a Folkway because he was eating his boogers in public on the bus and he was doing weird noises and actions on the bus.