Chinese Mothers Are Superior...........

I feel undecided on this article of the "chinese mothers" because i see the chinese parenting as a mean way and a good/helpful way to teach their childs the right ways of life.Its good that the parents thought their childrens to not be lazy and to never give up on their beliefs and competitive activities they are in.That shows their childrens that the parents belief in them and that they can do every thing they try.Another great thing that the chinese parents do its not to praise their childs alot because if they do then their childs will become lazy and they will not try enough on their activities because they will always know that their parents are their for them when they do something unhappy and bad for their parents.so by showing them that they care about them once in a while it will make the childrens feel like they are not working hard enough to make their parents feel proud of them.I believe that by saying emotional comments that can hurt your childs feelings can be a good thing and a bad thing because they can make feel their childs feel unwortless and not hard working kids so that will make them feel so disgrace ans bad that they will try enough to become better and succesful at the things they are bad in.Another great thing about chinese parentings is not allowing their childs to get distracted of the outside society which i mean of the bad things like bad friends and boyfriends/girlfriends and drugs/alcohol and parties that just bring up bad obedience and influence to them that will lead them to a horrible situation at life with no sucess and no future.

On the other hand i really dont like the fact that the chinese parents decide the childs life because they make their choices and they rule them by telling them what thingsto do and what not to do.I totally disagree in here beacuse i dont think that its right for the parents to choose their childs living because that makes their childs feel boring because that can not be their interestsbecause they may have another interest.I get that parents always try to choose the best future for their childs but they should just let them be and choose on their on then when they are actually messing up on theri own thyen they should interfier and help them.Another thing i dont like its those rude mean comments that make their childs feel unworthless and disgrace.I say this because somethimes many childs take it as the real meaning of the comments and they get to emotional that they can hut themselves by feeling like S*** or garbage....(sorry) but its true.....


I think that Freud's theory has something related to this article because she beliefs that childrens receive their personality based on the parenting of your parents and the way they teach their childs.So i think that this 2 things are similar because the chinese childs get their intelligence from the extra pressure and work(practice) that the parents put them to  do  so they become extra better at the things they are lacking.